For many men, they can only find a more fulfilling relationship with somebody a bit older, a bit more experienced. It can come down to their experience behind closed doors, or for their more meaningful conversations. However, it can also be quite intimidating to talk to an older woman as they have most likely heard all of your usual armada of chat-up lines.
Not only are they more mature, they are better lovers and they can be more independent – younger women tend to want more security and therefore require more attention and constant care from their man.
An older woman can be just the thing most men are looking for – strong, independent and able to go a few days without seeing you – and they can also be extremely strong confidants which is something most of us lack. But how do you go about talking to an older woman? It can be quite tough just talking, nevermind dating!
However, before taking your relationship to the next level you need to consider the following;
What are you looking for?
Are you looking for a full-on commitment, or a more relaxed relationship? You need to be clear and up-front with people about what your intentions are. Older women will have had their time wasted before so if you want different things, its best to part friends.
Toy boys are a myth
Many men are put off by being seen as a “toy boy” for an older woman, which can be quite embarrassing. Move on from what others think and if you make each other happy, the age is not an issue! Remember this as it can become a source of sore pride for some men.
Dating is supposed to be fun!
When with an older woman, many men can feel quite uneasy and feel like they have to up the conversational tone to something a bit more adult. However, you are going out with somebody to have fun! Try and treat the date the same way you would anybody else – you will find you can relax a lot more and enjoy your night.
Finally, ensure that are both comfortable in each other’s company – without that, there is no relationship. No matter the age gap or what the situation is, there is no substitute in any relationship for comfort. If you can enjoy yourselves, then things are moving forward.